June 8, 2002

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  Do you know what that little symbol means, it is called so many things, an astrick, a star, that little button on the bottom of your phone number pad . . .ok well maybe they don't call it "so many things" but there is more then one name, anyway . . .it usually means in writings that if you look at the bottom of the page you will see a note of the meaning or furthering explaination of what was said.  Well I used one and here is the reason why . . .

  
  

  Still waiting, good so here it goes . . .

  
  

  In the post made on May 19th I refred to a girl as a "hotty".  I just wanted to explain why I had done that and how I classify women.  Now this will either vindicate me of being a "selfish male pig" or confirm it.  I don't think I am, but you never know what women will think.

  
  

  As a side note is "women" the right way to spell what I mean, I mean a girl, but if there are many girls is it the same.  I always get it messed up, does it change to be plural, and what is the actual spelling.  Is it woman, women, wemon, weman, these are just a few of the spelling I get messed up with.  Anyway back to my astrick.

  
  

  I classify girls, (that is much eaiser to spell, and if you want to make it plural as I did you just add an s, so simple, if only life we so . . .) in three diffrent ways.

  
  

  Now some of the classifications are more imidate and others develope over time.  That is just the nature of meating people.  Never go off of your first impressions.  That is my motto.

  
  

  Now in no particular order here they are, I am going to start with the one that is the most common.

  
  

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  Visual inspection . . .now don't go gitty on me just sit back and read, it could be good for you.  I start out with a quick once over and pick out the most beutiful part of the woman, now not every girl is as easy as the other, some you have to look deep and others you can just pick where ever you are looking.

  
  

  I firmly belive that every girl has some beutiful part of her body, be it the eyes, nose, ears, the face in geral, forearms, ankles, toes, fingers, belly button, the flap under her arms, her smile, teeth, calf, and of cource you have to include her butt and her chest.  I tend to leave those two for last, they are the most obvoius so it kinda missed the point in searching for the obvious, I look for the non obvious.

  
  

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  Second is the attitude, it can also be refered to as her character.  Now personaly I think this is more important then looks.  I have met some women who are the easy ones to pick beuty, you know look at them and where ever your eyes fall you got something preatty.  But their attitude sucks so bad you don't want to even be around them.

  
  

  I look at how easy it is for them to laugh, how long does it take them to get angry or frustrated, are they honest, do they rely on make-up and/or diets,(i'll explain why this is important and in character in a moment), are they up-beat, depressed, do they look at the bright side of all situations, do they try to hide their feeling, are the cautious with thier emotional signals, do they flirt, do they hesitate. 

  
  

  All of the above and much more fall into this catagory of attitude.  Anyone can have a bad day, a week, a month or a year, and this is one of the most changing catagorys a person can have.  Most people are constantly updating their character their whole lives, I look at how they go about doing this, do they always jump around and change, or is a gradual change over many years.

  
  

  Oh yea almost forgot, the comment on do they rely on diets andor make-up, this a one of the most serious area's of a persons life.  Now I mind someone who wants to go out jogging every morning to keep in shape, or goes on a diet three times a year to lose 10 pounds, (two weeks before thanksgiving, two weeks before christmas, and two weeks before summer).  I also don't mind them using make-up to highlight, or on special occations, but when they rely on it and cake it on so thick it shows that they are trying to hide something, something that they don't like about themselfs.  And that is the problem, now I admit I am a big guy, I was born 10+pounds and have been big from that day on, I know that and accept that.  For example I just switched jobs from one that reqired me to work real hard to one that I sit around all day, and even get to take a nap every now and then, so now I need to excersize and diet as I suddenly balloned by 20 extra pounds, that isn't a problem, that is a minor correction.  I don't rely on a diet to make me happy.  I know I am big and that is how I am.  But I am not lazy and fat.  I would challenge anyone to out work me in not a simple day challenge but a month, if you think you can do it and can afford it, I will accept any challange.

  
  

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  Third and the most important one if you are looking for a mate, but not the most important if you are looking for friends and acquintences.  Is are they a Christian, do they belive that Jesus Christ died on the cross for them, and for everyone in the world.  What are they doing to further that movment in thier world.  Not the whole world, but in thier little part of the world.

  
  

  So when I comment on someone being a hotty, a cutie, a babe, a sister, a girl, a crazy, a woman, or a person from a diffrent planet, I have put a lot of thought into it and appriciate that person for who they are, and who they can become.  If I refer to them as a dog, a *itch, or someone with bad attitude I have thought about it and made my mind up, but it is alway open to a reapraisel, anyone can go up or down, and I will always do my part to help them up.

  
  

  Of course I am not perfect and am sure I have helped a few down, for that I ask forgivness, and pray for their turn about.

  
  

  BlackWolf

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